I have been thinking about the importance of intercessory prayer. There are always little articles flying around the internet about prayer. Some of the articles are campy. Some are full-blown studies on the effectiveness of prayer. It is all very interesting.
However, I am thinking about something else. I am thinking about the resistance to public intercessory prayer. During my time in parish ministry, I have had countless people ask me to pray for them. If appropriate, I usually ask if a person would like to be included on the parish prayer list. Often, the person will thankfully agree, but not always. Sometimes, a person will ask to be in my prayers, but not in the Prayers of the People.
There are probably many reasons that exist for not wanting to be prayed for at a Sunday service. Some don’t want to answer questions. Some are just more private.
My interior struggle has to do with the nature of the Church. Can’t we be a community of celebration and support? It is hard to feel vulnerable; I understand that. Yet, real community and trust depend on our willingness to be open with one another.
Offering prayer for another is important and transformative. Asking for prayer is at the very heart of our faith.
However, I am thinking about something else. I am thinking about the resistance to public intercessory prayer. During my time in parish ministry, I have had countless people ask me to pray for them. If appropriate, I usually ask if a person would like to be included on the parish prayer list. Often, the person will thankfully agree, but not always. Sometimes, a person will ask to be in my prayers, but not in the Prayers of the People.
There are probably many reasons that exist for not wanting to be prayed for at a Sunday service. Some don’t want to answer questions. Some are just more private.
My interior struggle has to do with the nature of the Church. Can’t we be a community of celebration and support? It is hard to feel vulnerable; I understand that. Yet, real community and trust depend on our willingness to be open with one another.
Offering prayer for another is important and transformative. Asking for prayer is at the very heart of our faith.